If your eleven yr old daughter told you her uncle had been molesting her would you accuse ger of being a SLUT?

I had been molested by my uncle from as early as age three or younger until age eleven when I realized what was happening and finally told my mother. She came home from work & confronted fmy uncle. His response was "I thought she liked it. She wears those short shorts and fI couldn't help myself." My mother instructed me to never tell my dad (his brother) because he would kill my uncle. Nothing else was said. I am now 37 and have been living w/ the pain of betrayal from a mother who did nothing to protect me or to punish the monster who hurt me. My mother has always been hateful to me and has been quick to judge me as a bad person. I later in life was told by my mother this same uncle and his wife would share a motel when on tripswith my parents. she told me after everyone went to sleep my uncle would wake her and in front of her. In an argument we had last week my mom said " the molesting wouldn't have happened if you weren't a SLUT and didn't FLAUNT "it"! OUCH!