Boyfriend and best friend trouble?

Im sorry, and it is painful but this guy doesn't seem to have respect for you. I do not believe in the catch all "once a cheater, always a cheater", but in this case i would definitely be wary. Ecstacy is not an excuse... mainly because he feels the same way and talks about it the same way when hes sober, and he only says he will try. Give him a chance maybe... but drop him if he cant respect you and your relationship. I would also suggest talking to your friend about the shirt thing... if it bugs you she should stop. You deserve better friends and a better boyfriend if they know what they are doing right in front of you and aren't willing to try and stop it.